Whom to Believe?

Posted on September 30, 2014 by Robert Ringer

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It’s amazing how often we automatically assume that someone’s words represent set-in-stone fact. Nothing amazes me more than when someone says, “I know that for a fact,” then, when pressed for his source of information, says that Freddie Fibber told him so.

Of course, just because someone tells you something that turns out to be false, it does not necessarily mean that he intentionally lied. For any one of a number of reasons, he might just be wrong.

For example, he might simply be repeating a falsehood that someone else told him, and that source may have gotten his wrong information from yet another source … and so on. Thus, if the original source is wrong, everyone who passes along the incorrect information is wrong as well. From whence comes the maxim “Consider the source.”

So how do you know whether or not something is true? Unfortunately, you can never be 100 percent certain of anything. But you can stack the odds in your favor by looking to experience first, reason second, and authoritative source third.

In theory, one’s firsthand experience is the perfect source of information. But even when someone tells you something that is based on his own firsthand experience, that doesn’t make it a fact. As everyone who has had any experience with the legal system knows, eye witnesses are notoriously unreliable.

How could a person be wrong about something he witnessed firsthand? Perhaps the most important reason is that even though he may have personally witnessed an event, he also could have misinterpreted it. If two individuals with completely different belief systems see the exact same thing, there’s an excellent chance that they are likely to process it quite differently.

What makes for endless misunderstandings is that we all view the world through lenses clouded by our individual biases and prejudices. (Think Ferguson, Missouri or the O.J. Simpson trial.) And when someone else’s biases and prejudices are different from ours, we tend to think that the other person is dishonest — or at least ignorant. This goes on in politics day in and day out, with a lot of hatred and name calling as by products.

A close second to firsthand experience is reasoning power. But the quality of one’s reasoning power is dependent upon the quality of one’s thought processes. Faulty thoughts = faulty reasoning power. Faulty reasoning power = faulty interpretations.

Finally, there is the least reliable repository of information — authoritative source. Does anyone in their right mind believe anything that the media or politicians say? Or big business? Or educators? Heck, you can’t even believe what the NFL front office says. Most of what passes for news is either purposely distorted or blatantly contrived, not to mention the endless lies through omission.

Tradition is the worst kind of authoritative source, which is scary, given that most of what we accept as truth is based on tradition. Adhering to tradition makes us feel secure and comfortable because it keeps us within the mainstream. But common sense dictates that just because something has been accepted as fact for centuries does not, of and by itself, assure its accuracy.

Socrates was the world champion when it came to challenging tradition. He was philosophically, morally, and politically at odds with his fellow citizens, and his views did not play well in Athens. If he were running for office today, his handlers would be whispering to him, “Shhh … Soc, cool it or they’ll be bringing out the bucket of hemlock before you know it.”

And that’s precisely what they did. The official charge was “corrupting youth by questioning tradition.” And what I love about Socrates is that he remained defiant to the bitter end.

I wonder what Socrates would think of modern-day America, a land where people are information challenged to the point of being functionally illiterate. And because most people have so little knowledge, they are, in the words of Montaigne, “most apt to believe what they least understand.”

We are not a nation of cowards. We are a nation of supreme dummkopfs. And if there’s one thing a dummkopf sorely needs, it’s humility, because humility serves as a constant reminder to us just how important it is to keep an open mind at all times.

Buddha’s advice serves as a good reminder of this: “Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.”

I must have come from another planet than most humanoids, because, with a handful of exceptions, I don’t assume that anything anyone tells me is a fact. On the contrary, I normally assume that most of what I hear is untrue unless it comes from a source I have learned, through firsthand experience, to trust.

‘Twas not always so. When I was a young, inexperienced tortoise, I was far more inclined to believe people who told me whoppers. In my twenties, I probably would have bought a used car from Bill Clinton. I can just hear him saying to me, “I can guarantee you that I did not have sexual relations with that car.” And, just like that, I probably would have driven off the lot with a pregnant Chevy.

Some people may find this philosophy to be a harsh view of the world, and maybe so. All I can tell you is that I sleep so much better at night when I am highly discriminate about whose words I accept as fact. Everything in life has a price, and gullibility is no exception. I have nothing personal against Freddie Fibber, but until I see proof to the contrary, I’m going to ignore his claim that he invented cellular telephone technology.

Robert Ringer

+Robert Ringer is an American icon whose unique insights into life have helped millions of readers worldwide. He is also the author of two New York Times #1 bestselling books, both of which have been listed by The New York Times among the 15 best-selling motivational books of all time.

20 responses to “Whom to Believe?”

  1. BAR says:

    I am not sure to whom to contribute this; I do know it resonated and I have tried to ask these two questions that one man in a thousand ask on a regular basis:
    Is it true?
    How do you know?

    • cara says:

      I PRETTY MUCH LOST A VERY INTELLIGENT AND DEAR FRIEND WHEN I QUESTIONED SOMETHING OUTLANDISH HE SAID. HE TOOK OFFENSE WHEN I ASKED HIM HIS SOURCE. I'VE ALWAYS WONDERED WHETHER IT WAS WORTH IT – I KNEW WHAT HE SAID WASN'T TRUE ANYWAY.
      YOU KNOW, IN SCHOOL YOU HAVE TO SUBMIT A BIBLIOGRAPHY. SO WHAT DO YOU THINK WAS HIS PROBLEM….

  2. larajf says:

    I wish people would wake up. There are those that want a nation of idiots who believe all the lies that they'll swallow. We need to wake up, rise up and throw them out bringing back a culture of integrity and true acceptance of differences.

  3. Miriam miriam says:

    I was raised being told lies by my father about life, people, etc. He was into fantasy and denial. Talk about being cut off at the knees. It has taken me decades to unravel the lies and try to figure out what is true. I was relieved to find and read Looking Out For #1. For the first time, someone told me the facts of life. I have to read the book at least once a year to keep my head on straight and try to think logically instead of emotionally.

  4. Rock Shaw says:

    "Believe none of what you hear, and only half of what you see"! – Benjamin Franklin
    "Believe only half of what you see and nothing of what you hear"! – Edgar Allen Poe
    Supposedly Harry Truman quoted this statement also, but don't believe me, look it up for yourself!!
    Someone quoted "Believe half of what you see and only half of what you read."
    I have personally relied on these quotes all of my life, they have served me well!!

  5. bullwink says:

    Robert it's uncanny that you seem to publish an article that hits home when i need it too, and well gee it's rubbed off on your daughter too, you have made my maxin "never do anything that would compromise your integrity" Confuscius said "the wisdom lies within the Question" often I'm pestered w/ questions that have no bearing on the matter at hand , yet the questioner scorns me for refusing to answer, over the years 20+ your vision of sane behavior, price paying rational goal setting…has given me occasional happiness, strength and serenity, and the fact that you can pass it on means it must be good. Socrates said "Question everything" my thanks to you & yours…

  6. Paul Anthony says:

    Let's not forget Yogi Berra's famous quote:
    "It's not what we don't know that gets us in trouble, it's what we know for sure that just ain't so".

  7. words2influence says:

    What you 'see' is the whole truth and so will be your conviction. But, you can't see/experience everything…and that gives rise to a compensating belief system. Part of being human.

  8. John E. Gabor says:

    Then there's Chesterton: When a man stops believing in God he doesn’t then believe in nothing, he believes anything.

  9. Lynn Blake says:

    Then there's Reagan: "Trust, but verify."

    Without an innate trust in our fellow man, the world–from the financial markets to our closest relationship– stops tomorrow.

  10. Gordon says:

    And then there's Mark Twain's observation:
    If a man doesn't read a newspaper every day is uninformed. If he does read one every day, he is misinformed.

    Modern media has not changed the truth of this observation.

  11. american real says:

    Robert — another brilliant post and so timely. I wish people would apply this to the ebola "outbreak" and the isis "beheadings" If people took the time to analyze and look closely and analyze what is presented, they would be amazed that such propaganda and theatrics are presented as fact

  12. Richard Lee Van says:

    "The greatest knowledge is to know that you do not know." Socrates (via Plato) "Follow no one. Follow self." J. Krishnamurti. Or, better, follow Self, one's High Self. "There is no such thing as OBJECTIVITY. Objectivity is only group subjectivity. RLV/ me."What works it true." Pragmatism And then there is the concept of "tentativity of belief". Krishnamurti said he believed everything TENTATIVELY in case a belief came to be replaced by superior knowledge. Be open, therefore, to change. Rigid thinking may be/will likely be WRONG THINKING. Like the beliefs of exclusivistic religious folk. AND, I am fond of saying, "You don't have to believe something in order for it to be true!" The ignorant love to say, "Oh that is BS!" (To each her own.) No, sonny, everything is NOT relative. Some ideas etc are better than others. Close judgment is required. Etc.

  13. Richard Lee Van says:

    Speaking of "close judgment"… The concept of Ahlimsa is superior to the Ten Commandments. Ahimsa says, DO NO HARM TO SELF OR OTHER. But that requires a mind that is skilled in thinking and judging. Consequently, some folks need LISTS of do's and do not's, such as the Big Ten of Christianity. And I have revised some of those, for myself, such as "Honor thy mother and father". I say, IF THEY ARE HONORABLE. But some say that means "Bring honor to your mother and father" by being a good, etc., person.

  14. No issue better exemplifies your point than belief in the new western state religion – warmism – the belief that co2 emissions will catastrophically warm the Earth. A modicum of investigation of the evidence and reason easily shows that politicians, environmentalists and so-called scientists who portray this as the greatest crisis facing the globe are hopelessly deluded or willfully deceiving. They resort to pathetic appeals to 'authority' and unfounded character assassinations to make their case. This is because their evidence is so weak.
    I understand the science of this issue and can easily spot the lies. It makes me wonder whst else western leaders are lying about.

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