Never waste valuable time and energy being angry at the person you believe caused your downfall. In the final analysis, it was you who made your decisions, and one of the unfortunate decisions you may have made was to become involved with the wrong person in the first place.

The healthiest thing you can do for your mind-set is to think of the guy who tripped you up as merely a vehicle you used to punish yourself. Fortunately, in the final analysis, universal laws prevail, and you will end up exactly where you deserve to be. And so, too, will the other guy.

So do yourself a favor and forget about the injustice someone may have done to you, and instead focus on the mistakes YOU made — and on ways to avoid making the same mistakes again.